What Happens When We Focus on the Wrong Problem?

What Happens When We Focus on the Wrong Problem?

What Happens When We Focus on the Wrong Problem?Emma Fisher
Published on: 17/06/2026

When we focus on the wrong problem, it can feel like we're running very fast without getting anywhere. Behaviour is frequently the visible clue pointing towards something deeper. Because when we identify the right problem, solutions become clearer.

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The Mistake Most People Make When Reading Behaviour

The Mistake Most People Make When Reading Behaviour

The Mistake Most People Make When Reading BehaviourEmma Fisher
Published on: 16/06/2026

The biggest mistake people make when reading behaviour is assuming the behaviour explains itself. Behaviour tells us what happened. It does not automatically tell us why. In TKC we break this down!

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What If the Behaviour Makes Perfect Sense?

What If the Behaviour Makes Perfect Sense?

What If the Behaviour Makes Perfect Sense?Emma Fisher
Published on: 15/06/2026

Making the behaviour make sense.

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When Everything Feels Urgent

When Everything Feels Urgent

When Everything Feels UrgentEmma Fisher
Published on: 13/06/2026

When everything feels urgent, its easy to think we need to do more. But that's a trap. What we need is clarity in the moment.

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Why Nothing Seems to Work for Long

Why Nothing Seems to Work for Long

Why Nothing Seems to Work for LongEmma Fisher
Published on: 11/06/2026

A strategy may solve one part of the puzzle while another part is still developing. That doesn't make the strategy worthless. It means parenting is an ongoing process of understanding, adapting, and responding.

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How Did We End Up Here Again?

How Did We End Up Here Again?

How Did We End Up Here Again?Emma Fisher
Published on: 09/06/2026

the next time you find yourself wondering: "How did we end up here again?" Remember that the question itself contains an opportunity. Because every recurring pattern has something to teach us.

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